Spacetime curvatuire = em radiation

I might have already talked about this but what if the curvature of spacetime that causes gravity is actually not a large funnel shaped curve but many small curves created by electromagnetic waves curving space.    All the little waves moving out from the earth creates that snow pattern on your television but is actually spacetime moving like waves on the sea.   Waves passing through waves will then curve.   Objects passing through this EM radiation will also curve in their paths.     It really is a similar thing to how cherrios cling together in your bowl.   On one side of any object you will have more curvature and therefore more area to pass through and your journey will be longer and thus will appear to move more slowly.   While the side that has less curvature to pass through because the wave density is less will have less distance to travel (through the waves ) and will thus will travel faster.   it's like when you put pressure on one ski when skiing and you turn in the direction of the ski you press on.   Or how a tank will turn when one of it's treads moves faster than the other.    Of course any object moving through this frothy space-time will also be giving off waves in all directions so the calculations of this will then be even more complicated.